“People” like to say that actions speak louder than words. I believe that to be true…….mostly. But, what about the person who also needs words of affirmation? Do words replace actions? Of course not. Ultimately, actions will be what makes a relationship work. I think this is true in all facets of life…..work, friends, family and romantic relationships. I believe that it is human nature to want to feel special….valued. For me, that means actions, words and small gestures. Yes, I could be asking for a lot. I’ve said before, and I stand by it…..I want it all. Isn’t that what we should all want? I know that every single day can’t be a fairytale day. But finding the extraordinary in the ordinary is possible. I want that. Don’t you?! I’m actually a pretty simple girl. I don’t require a ton……and I do realize that contradicts my earlier statement regarding asking for a lot. My heart is won over by showing effort. That’s texts that say good morning and goodnight. That’s calling me to ask how my day was. That’s asking me to get together because you want me in your life. That’s showing up with flowers, or writing a sweet note, or bringing me a coke zero. That’s telling me what I mean to you…..hearing the words. I don’t need to be wined and dined, but I’m not opposed to it either. I’m happy to sit in my sweats on the sofa and watch Bachelor in Paradise or football. Yep, I’m that girl. I dream of cooking dinner and having a partner pull me away from what I’m doing and start dancing with me. I also like to dress up to go out to a nice restaurant. I also like to go to Freddy’s…..or eat chips and salsa for dinner. See….simple. I rarely care about what I’m doing, but care more about who I’m doing it with. Quality time is likely my strongest love language, yet physical touch and words of affirmation are right up there too. There’s something to be said about having someone in your life who is able to make the worries of the day melt away with a simple hug or a lighthearted moment, or who says let me listen…..tell me all about your day. Friends fill this role. Family fills this role. A romantic partner fills this role. Surround yourself with those who fill your cup. Yes, I want it all. We all should.